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Originally Posted by kitten16
He's always been strange, quirky, cold, weird. Very phobic physically -- I finally figured out that he doesn't like it when I hand him my check. We get off to a slightly better start if I put it on the desk. If he has anything for me, like a statement, he sticks it on the desk, doesn't want to get near me. He also sits down the whole time we're together -- doesn't rise when I leave. Always thought it was weird, but never attributed it to a sexual fear of me or anything.
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hi kitten. i think it might be his training if he is psychodynamically or psychoanalytically trained. Ts used to be taught to be a blank slate for the client to then transfer everything onto. my T also didn't rise out of her chair when i would go to leave. i thought it was so strange at first and then realized it must be her training. i mentioned once to her how some people on PC have a lot of physical contact with their Ts and we had an interesting discussion about it. i wasn't really looking for hugs or hand-holding or anything but she did loosen up a bit after that. she was just trained to be very careful about physical boundaries. she is quite warm and compassionate though.