CMFox first i would like to say welcome to Psych Central. This is a community full of people that are helpful and very supportive.

I read your post and i am thinking.,, I am thinking about how you must feel, how she must feel. Tehre are a lot of us here( myself included) that have been raped or sexually abused. It is sucha trauamtic experience that it takes years maybe even a lifetime to completely deal withit. it is something that never goes away. It is something that you never completely get over. It is something that is very easily triggered. Your friend Sarah needs some help coping with what happened to her.
Growing up, living with step dad, that abused me in any way possible, i always thought i would never find someone to understand me, to love me for me. But i did. He has been there for me even when i felt i didnt deserve him.
I am so sorry that you are having to deal with this. I am sorry that she is having to deal with this also.

We are here for you, to support you through this, ok?

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