(((((((( sanityseeker )))))))

Support comes in many forms and that can also include advice. Some people asking for support just want someone to listen and need a hug. The power of a cyber hug is quite wonderful for many people who never receive comfort in real life.

You said that you get upset in real life when people don't take your advice. It's been a journey for me here in PC to learn that it is up to the individual in what they do with that advice as they may not be in a place to do anything about it. That can be frustrating but please know your support is heard, it just might take a while for the other person to take it on board.

On the issue of advice versus judgement it is all to do with how you write and come across. I have been here for many years and learnt how to. Many people come here asking a question and needing answers. Offering support is an art in itself. It's not what you say but how you say it.