Hi Rainbow,

I'm sorry you're feeling disappointed right now. But I think your reaction is important to look at and try to understand. It's a pattern for you to want closeness with someone that you then start finding fault with. Since you have found fault with your previous t over different matters, my guess is that this situation with your new t is not about weight per se, but it is about the pattern/need to find fault with your t's. Do you find fault with your family and friends? Or is it t specific?