Kitten16 - sorry I don't know you well, so this question might not be good - but have you thought about changing therapists or are you happy with him? The reason I say this is - you're the patient and you shouldn't be made to feel 'concerned' for his feelings and moods. Like Bohemian Princess said "you're paying him" so he has to accomodate 'you' not the other way around. Once a session over, you should be thinking about what's the next step in your issues, not 'second guessing his reactions/non-reactions. It doesn't mean he's a bad therapist - it just means you and he might not be compatable. But if you do like your T then just disregard what I said lol.