Don't forget that judgement has two sides that are related to your question :-) I have good judgement but I can also be critical/judgmental (using the word "critical" often helps understand the two sides better for me as I want to be "discerning" (critical) but not "unkind"). It all kind of goes with the territory though. I believe that you are asking these questions at all means you lean toward the more positive side of things.

I try to do my best and that's all I can do :-)