grizmom, sounds like a bit of a nightmare but CONGRATULATIONS!!! it's done!!!

I think he sounds like a bit of a ...loser... I guess he's dealing with his own issues if he's glued to his computer and even having therapy via a computer a game. Sounds like he really needs to break away from his 'gf', sounds like a damaging relationship... but luckily not your problem now. he's shown his true colours, basically.

Congratulations on getting this out of the way. You handled it amazingly from the sounds of it.
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