im really worried for my girlfriend who i think has started to SI, i might be wrong but being SI myself i can sort of tell.. i saw 3 small cuts on her wrist so i asked about them and she said they were her cat, i believed her but then i noticed further up her arm, just before her elbow where her shirt had moved up more cuts, i didnt stare so she dosent know. later i pointed out to her she had one cuff done up and the side with the cuts done up, she seemed very protective. im really worried, ive been thought the pain of SI and how you sometimes feel when you want to or have SI'ed so im wanting to ask but i dont want to accuse. i was thinking of when we were alone asking her to show me her arm look me in the eyes and tell me what it is.