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Originally Posted by silenthill
i'm so ready to turn in my T, could someone on here help me please,tell me how,i'v told her that i was thinking about it,and she said she will tell them every thing i have said at the appts, can she do that ? i'm not sure if we can take any more,husband knows about the $ and we get hit all the time just for that,now she is moveing to a bigger office place that cost more $ but she can't pay the loan off that she owes us, please help me please
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I just went back and read some of your older posts. Im amazed that this situaiton has been gonig on now since 2007. three years and you are still with this same therapist and in the same situation. I know its hard to make decisions like getting out of it so Im not going to say run like the wind, Im not going to try and convince you that you need to get out. three years of this you have already heard it all from all sides I'm guessing.
What I can do is make a suggestion and leave the rest up to you. your domestic violence problems there is help out there for you, its up to you to decide to do it though no one here can make you want to get away from an abusive husband and no one can force you to leave this therapist. the decisions are all yours to make.
options - Domestic violence hotline - 1−800−799−SAFE(7233) Domestic Violence website
http://www.ndvh.org/
When you are ready to they can hook you up with the closest branch nearest you and help you move out of your abusive home and into a safe shelter or a new safe apartment of your choice. they also have free groups and therapy options and free legal help. they can also help you get free of this therapist when you are ready to do so.
we cant actually do anything to help other than lend our eyes to read your posts and make suggestions. only you can make the decision to get out or not.
