anxietydisorder, has anyone checked to see if your father can be prosecuted for stalking? Is your father under a court order to pay support? If so has anyone talked to the city or county attorney about enforcing the order?

You may be able to get some help here: http://www.nami.org/Template.cfm?Sec...iateFinder.cfm

Is there a cleric or teacher that you can talk to?

Good luck.