Let me be more specific in the fueling of my fire...
Not meaning it was wi-fighter per se. I just meant that is one of my issues when I was growing up. My Mother never truly cared or seemed to want to understand why I was hurt. She basically just turned the attention on something else, mostly her and how my depression effected her!!
So, I am sorry I wasn't clear there. My apologies to wi-fighter for not explaining my firing of the fuel better.
I know she cares, like all of you.