Im sorry that this is going on. I was in a similar situation, which is all I will tell you. I never said anything to anyone and because of that things turned out really bad. I understand that you dont want to change what you wear around your house but it seems to me that if you are feeling uncomfertable with how your dad is acting around you then perhaps you should rethink your wardrobe. Also please talk to someone, dont keep it to yourself like I did. I hope that you figure everything out. Good luck...