(((((((((((griffin))))))))))))

I definitely, definitely think you should ask her.

Therapy is teaching me that my needs are okay, and I can ask to have my needs met....but that I can't really expect anyone to just "know" what I need. I would hate so much for you to not ask her and then not have anything to take with you. It seems too important to not ask, you know??

If it were me, I would just say "I'm really going to miss you when I move and I was wondering if I could have something to remember you by". Then the two of you could talk about what would feel good.

I'm sorry that this big, hard transition is coming up for you.