I seem to be getting some contradictory advice about my situation so I thought you all could maybe give me your opinions on the subject. My husband is deployed and I have a lot going on in my life right now. Some people say that I should stay busy and that it will make the time pass by quicker and keep my mind off of things. This has generally worked for me, but lately I have been so busy with so many things that it is kind of stressing me out. Then some other people tell me that I am under a lot of stress right now and I should try to relax and take it easy. So which do you all think is more helpful, staying busy or relaxing? Thanks!