I will try to initiate a "group meeting" so Raegan can share her feelings tomorrow, when we'll have time and there's no homework to distract us. I did want to point out that at NO time whatsoever will we force her into anything she's not totally comfortable with. I don't care how much it would help to force her; nothing is worth that. It's only if she is totally okay with it that we would let her do this; I'm just thinking of the ethical-ness (is that a word?) of this hypothetical situation.