I sold my house in NYC, to come out here and help my son through his divorce and custody of grandson. I was advised to put the money in my son's name from the closing table by my attorney as I was still not very well after volunteering at 9/11. Son gave word he'd give me money back once here 500,000.00. Verbal agreement. 5 years later, he has not given money back and has moved back to the East Coast. As has my daughter. Both are very
unkind. I spent more than half a century in NYC-it is my home.
I hate it here-no culture, no art, no music--a place of debauchery.
My lease is up June. I will not be able to afford to live here anymore.
NY is a welfare State, I have found a Resource there wherein I can get housing, I may be homeless for a bit, but that would put me at the top of the housing list. My son promised to get me cross country with dog, and stuff into storage.
Now he is insisting I live in a house in Scranton PA (he can keep an
eye on me there), and won't help me move at all unless it's on his terms. I want my autonomy back. Planned to get a grant from Government become a Nurse Practitioner..all i want is an apt. all i want is just enough. Heating a house is too much money-I don't need a house, I don't ever want to see my son again.
sorry-long appreciate any input--son is manipulative, cruel, like father-am desperate
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