((Notsohot)) - welcome to PC and I'm sorry you're struggling and feeling alone. I'm also Canadian and you'll find alot of support here. I understand how scary it is, when you find a lump in your breast. I had a breast biopsy done 4yrs again and luckily it was benign. It's natural when we find a lump to feel scared and think it must be breast cancer. We imagine the worst.

One thing I've learned in life is not too worry prematurely. I'm not trying to negate your situation at all, just trying to reassure you. I think the 1st thing the surgeon will do, is take a biopsy. I didn't have the standard needle biopsy - my hospital had a newer technique, called a 'mamotone' - where they aspirate the lump and send it to the lab. I pray that's all they'll need to do and it will be benign. What kind of cancer did your mom have? So sorry for your loss.

I agree your husband should be more sensitive to how you're feeling. I think you should tell him all your fears. I understand him telling you to leave was very wrong. It sounds like there's stress coming from all angles. Do you think he would be willing to sit and talk? I don't think you're being too needy.

I found this website for PCOS:
http://pcos.insulitelabs.com/?campai...FRnW5wodcDvVOg