"In the past, I seem to have been a NPD magnet..." Seeker1950 replied to a post about Facebook NPDs with that and I had like an epiphany. This has been my experience ALL MY LIFE!

Every guy I have ever dated was extremely selfish or narcissistic. I have always been attractive to so called "confident" guys. My relationships with female friends are few because I don't trust them. (Probably lot to do with the relationship with my NPD mom)

I was just wondering what exactly does one do that lets a narcissist know that you're an easy target? How did you stop doing what ever it was that attracts them?