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Originally Posted by Perna
I'd see if you could hire a lawyer or some other "official" person to call him, someone who he'd "respect"/be afraid of. Even a friend you have that he doesn't know who can make up a "reminder service" company he's part of that you have "subscribed" to. Set up some meetings with other people in a neutral area that he can't bug out of.
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I can't afford to hire anyone...that's why we are doing the pro se divorce (do - it - yourself) and actually we were able to be civil about it until this happened...as long as none of the info changes (like address or occupation) before the hearing, I shouldn't have to talk to him or see him again until the actual hearing. None of my friends would be able to call him without chewing him out LOL! My one friend was begging for his phone number so she could yell at him but I don't need him filing complaints against me or her. He just needs to start thinking for himself instead of having his fake girlfriend and fake therapist tell him what to do all the time.
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