Sometimes when you try a medicaiton it may not be the right one or the right does. I say this because I've been on a few dozen. But soemthings to keep in mind. If the side effects are too bad, call your doctor and tell him/her.

Also if you are scared about how your husband will respond tell your doctor, and bring him in when YOU are ready. Keep in mind, that T and Couselors can help with the fear/anxiety/worry of what would happen afterwards. Keep us posted. And I hope the side effects go away quickly, and that it is the right drug for you. Again keep us posted.