ALL'S I KNOW, NO MATTER HOW LONG/SHORT, IT HURTS AND HEALING ISNT EASY. BEING LIED TOO AND CHEATED ON IS NOT GOOD. THE WORST PART IS LOSING UR KIDS TO THIS MESS. NEVER THOUGHT HE'D GO SO FAR!!! WHAT A WASTE OF TIME/LIFE. ITS REALLY . JUST DONT DROWN IN UR FEELINGS. THERES ALOT OF SINGLE AND LONELY PEOPLE OUT THERE FEELING THE SAME WAY, JUST LIKE US.