Do not make an issue out of people's orientation unless it comes to matters of the heart. Had a friend who swore she was gay...I dated her a few times and it just did not feel right to me. Trying to put us in sterotyped roles. Slept with her one time and it felt mechanical. Soon after she declares she is not gay (surprise...not). That just hurt. Felt like she ran her own experiment in sexual orientation and I got to be the lab rat. Maybe that is why people steer away from bi-curious people. They are not thinking of the other person's feelings. In my opinion, this fashion trend is not a harmless one. Take care of eachother out there.