My T does care about me. The hard part is understanding that. If we weren't taught how to connect from our parents or significant parental figures while we were growing up then its really hard to 'get' that anybody cares. Our brain doesn't work like it should.

Chronic, I find that if I am not with a person then I cannot see their face. There is no connection. My T told me that its something that our brains need to learn.

So yes my T cares. (I asked him) I can tell this from the stuffed polar bear that I have in my possession from him. He has also given me a photo of himself so my brain can connect to him. I see his tears when I am talking to him. Can I really understand in my heart that he really cares? No. I am trying to learn though. DID doesn't help.

Chronic why don't you ask your T if they care? I bet the answer will surprise you.