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Old Apr 17, 2010, 07:41 AM
Anonymous39292
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I hope someday you can find the words and ask if T cares about you...I'll tell you the words I used, in case that is helpful. And I will tell you I have had to ask several times before it finally sank in.

Once, I said, "how do I know I'm not just another client to you?" T replied "You are never just another appointment in my day...you are G, and there is no one in the universe like you. I look forward to seeing you."

Another time I said, "It's your job to care about me...." T replied to that by saying "no amount of money in the world could force me to care about someone...I could not do this work if I did not genuinely care. I genuinely care about you, G..." and then she listed some of the reasons why she cares.

I also used to ask her if I was a burden to her and she said absolutely not. And then she told me that I can ask her that question every single day if I need to and she would be happy to reassure me as many times as it took to sink in.

Soooooo....as incredibly painful as it is, I wonder if you can ask if T cares. Write a note or muster up some words. Could you even hide your face or close your eyes and say it? I think eventually a small piece of the truth will sink in.
Thanks for this!
Chronic