I understnad your rage... I came across that sort of thing (only a tad worse) on my parents computer and I went into the same rage... I was so angry dad would be doing that sort of thing and be married to my mom. I think he had been doing it for so long that he didnt even know how to show affection to my mom anymore... yeah that really hits a nerve. I agree that he got on it so quickly on your new computer he may have been looking at it elsewhere. But you have to look at the positive as well. it could have been much much worse. just take a breath... and wait until this evening to talk about it. you should be much calmer by then