oh yea I fit this too. during situations involving other people ( and usually with myeslf too) they see me as the calm cool and collected one that knows exactly what to do. But they rarely see me fall apart which is what I do once the situation is taken care of. I know now that its Mary, Katherine or Ann that are the calm cool and collected ones and the falling apart after the situation has been dealt with is me comming back from my lala land and still in the emotions from when the situations first happens. people think I am freaking out over nothing because they don't realize I wasn't around during the solving of the situation.