I disagree that time heals all wounds. Time may replace some old memories with new ones, but thats all. There is no magic simply with time. You and others can heal yourself though. Don't know all the details but betrayal is a choice, not a mistake. If you offered him a dedicated intimate relationship and he couldn't offer the same, you know thats not what you want, right? Communicating after a simple break in going out is one thing, trying to stay connected with him after this.....explain to me what you expect will be the results. I'd really like to hear your thought process. Things will get better as you see the situation through logical eyes rather than emotional.