In retrospect, the most ridiculous thing a T said to me was a former T. We entered the room and sat down and he asked "How are you doing?". I think I just stared, in shock. This usually very appearance-conscious, meticulous dressing, clean-shaven person looked as if he had slept under a bush. For a few nights. With no place to wash up or a change of clothes.

He later disappeared without a word after losing his license, having been arrested for having a relationship with a client. Looking back, this must have been the day after his arrest or something, as it was a few weeks or more before he disappeared.

Another former T said, during a painful silence, "Like pulling teeth." Yeah, THAT helped! lol