lexicon,

when i as asking so many why questions with t, i kept getting so stuck i could go no further. i had to figure out a way to get past that. it was one of the most difficult things in my therapy...not getting answers to the why's. i had to know that i'll never know the answers to these questions of the universe and deal with what had happened. i thought if i could answer the why's, i'd understand and justify it somehow.

the thing is, answers aren't going to justify that pain. they just aren't. we have to deal with the pain, etc. it's hard.

it's helped me so much to move past the "why's". i hope you can too. i just don't think there are answers sometimes.

be safe,

kd