I left my T in November 2009 because I moved to a different state. She called me every 2 weeks after that to check in. We would talk for 45 minutes every time which is the regular length of my sessions with her. I last talked to her about 5 weeks ago. A little over a year ago I promised to give her a recipe for my grandma's stuffed cabbage (it's like the best food in the world). I never followed through with it. It's been on my mind since last year. I started the recipe and just couldn't finish it up so I couldn't obviously give it to her. Today I decided I had the ambition to finish the recipe so I printed it off along with a short letter to her. I basically told her that I have a lot of unfinished projects including this one and it was important to me to follow through with it. I told her even if she doesn't use it or doesn't want it, it was a sign for me that I can and will get to all the projects I haven't been able to finish. I feel bad because I don't want her to think I did it so she would call me again or anything like that. I truly did it for me. Is this a weird thing? SHould I not have mailed it? Too late now to chane anything but I am just afraid it's inappropriate or weird. What do you think?