My XH had/has a porn habit, and we were discussing that in light of our daughters who were now going to be spending time with him alone, since he now had his own place--would they be exposed to porn? And then my H asked, well how did one define "porn"? (This was a couples session.) And as part of that, the different magazines came up. T didn't give his explanation in a condescending way at all. It was very professional, straightforward, etc. It was I who was kind of uncomfortable. It just had an air of unreality to it (I felt like I was watching T tell me about porn magazines from afar, instead of listening to him myself say these things.) I did wonder how does T know so much about porn?