(((LADY DRAGUS)))
I can feel how excruciating your pain is through your post.
I don't know why mothers hurt their daughters. I guess they have their own agendas. And , I am sorry about the situation with your daughter. Geez, it must be draining emotionally with all the other things you deal with to stay healthy.
But, be proud today that you stood up to your mom. You knew in the end it had to be done. Even if she hurt your feelings and it made you want to crawl up in a ball. I am sure it wasn't the first time your mother made you feel like that. But, probably the first time you stood tall and true and told her how you really felt.
Be kind to yourself today!!