((((((((((((((((((((dps)))))))))))))))))))
Holding you and hearing you.

I too was surprised that it sometimes is a 2 year old part that wants to hurt herself. That just seems too young, how sad.

I also do not know how to parent myself. I am struggling parenting my real children and having to do it for myself is overwhelming at times.

When my t recently asked what the 12 year old and her "room" looked like I really didn't know. Later I responded that she looked, acted, had a room that was whatever everyone else wanted. Her own opinions and needs didn't matter.

I just want you to know that I hear you and I understand some of what you are going through. You are not alone. Please understand how much you mean to me.

Being with you, for support and understanding, and holding,
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