Zelev, I am reading with interest. I too wonder why people believe that a certain condition or trait makes them a target. What about self control for those people inflicting the harm/distress! Why do something ugly just because you can?!?!?! On the other hand, it makes me wonder why others sit and watch the behavior of, I'll use the term bullies. Low self esteem doesn't cry out "hit or belittle me, I'm stupid." Confident people aren't always confident and seem to seek some strange bed fellows and must, must have someone at their side to carry out a task. I applaud you for seeking a solution.