Solar.... I think your answer was spot-on. Good for you! I would be willing to bet that you saying that changed that T's life and made her a better person. I bet it was a wake-up call. And I bet she never forgets it either.

I was glad he did not say anything when he saw me. That would have been totally un-cool because that restaurant is my hang-out and I know just about all the workers and managers personally for years now. T is the "new guy" around there since I have been eating there for over 8 yrs and he just moved his practice to this area last year. So if he would have been like "oh Hi W!" and the bartender or seater or manager would have heard it and it they knew he was a T... oh brother! It would be like "So you seeing a shrink now? hee hee hee" because they would rib me like that. So yeah - him not saying anything - smart move! In fact, now that I think of it that way, I bet that may be why I did not see him. If I did see him, my protection mode may have kicked in and not let me know I saw him so I would not have to deal with it. Interesting thought! Thanks for that great question!