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Originally Posted by mafub
jexa! Listen to your own good consul when you hear it! You are making yourself sick and not good for you or anyone in your weakened condition. So many questions you don't need to ask over and over.
The outcome is the same answer...nothing good enough, comforting enough, or what you want to hear! Wishes won't work.
This is what you said:
I just wish she would go get some help! Obviously it can't come from me! Even though I want it to.
Now, what do you think of that? Isn't that an excellent answer? Isn't that an answer you would suggest to another who is struggling? You finally kept at it long enough that you reached your own conclusion at what is right. Be thankful, be proud, be comforted in your search! You did it, finally!
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You're right! All of that was just me wishing and wishing.. I don't think I can help but
wish things though. The answer is I can't try so hard anymore. It will still come to my mind, though, that I wish things were different. I guess I will have to gently remind myself to let those thoughts just float on by, rather than acting on them!