My faimly (family of origin that is) has basicly given up on me. Guess they don't believe I'm worth the effort it would take to have me in their lives. I can forgive them for that, but my daughter is a far different story. They don't have to have me in their lives to have her in their lives, she is briliant ray of sunshine that lights up any roon she is in with love and joy. I'm not angry with them for not including them in their lives, I pity them for what they are missing out on.