That guy really is pernicious. Next thing you know, you will be bouncing on his bed again being the perfect mate and beating on yourself if he even raises an eyebrow.

A very real conundrum involves other men. All will be compared to that one, invariably coming up short. Frankly, they have no chance until that one is acknowledged to be a predator always on the prowl.

Take this thing off the pedestal. As long as he remains the exemplar he will hurt you.