Shadow-you are so kind---and fair in your observations.
Life is not kind, nor is it fair, and you know that as well as I.

I want to thank you for all your wonderful input here---let's just let this thread drop.
there's nothing that can be done--it's a rant.

You have all been so wonderfully kind--and i guess I was asking for that-(((((hugs)))))


"If, coulda, shoulda, woulda all live on another planet"