Well I wanted to update this a bit. I took the opportunity of having a small graduation party for myself this coming Friday. I invited my 3 second cousins( which none are able to come due to their kids having activities they need to be at) Which is understandable. One of the cousins pm'd me and so I started a chat up with her. We decided we need to get together soon. We don't have a date yet. But I told her to find a time that the three of them have open and we will set something up then. Its much harder for them to find the time since they work full time and also have kids. I am very excited about this, yet scared. I haven't really seen them socially like this in almost 19 yrs. I will update again when we have a date set up and how it went.. Thanks again for helping me with this, sorry it took so long for me to get the courage up to do something though. But better late than never