(((((((( Deli )))))))))))) O M G !!!!!!! W T F ?

That idiot has some nerve to have said that!!!!!!
That is just cruel and beyond understanding!
You are YOU. You are not what that idiot thinks you need to become. Having a spouse and family is not the answer! In fact, a person is much better off first working on who they are and learning to be healthy. After that, they will be ready to have a healthy relationship and such - if they want that. But there is no law that says everyone HAS to be coupled off that way. UUUURRRRRR !!!!!!!!!!!!
Very big hugs to you!!!!