Hi Peet,

I'm very sorry to hear what you're going through... I had a similar thing happen to me recently, so I know exactly how hard it is to deal with.

I think it's important to be strong, to stick to your guns, and remember that anyone that can do something like this to you, not once but twice!, isn't worth it. I know you care deeply for this man and that you two have shared much together. But you also deserve decency, respect, and trust. And it's obvious he's got issues with those kinds of basic relationship things. It's likely no amount of therapy can solve something that becomes a pattern like this.

Hang in there!
John