hes just a really big @ss and it gets old dealing with his b.s. it was easier when I had my anxiety meds. i could deal with it. thats when we got married. now that im off them he makes me want to drink after dealing with him all day at work then at home with the kids and his mom. he says its an excuse but all I know is he gets on my nerves and makes me want to have calgon and some crown take me away... (after the kids are in bed of course)