Hey all

I text him last night to ask if he was going to end things with Lisa. He said he didn't know. I am not going to be the other woman and have decided to cut contact with him until he has done something that will show he meant what he said.
If he shows something substantial before wednesday then I will met with him, if not then there is not point.
I understand it will be very hard for him seeing he works with her - his problem not mine and if that is a deciding factor - that he stays with her because it's 'easier' than having trouble at work (especially seeing he is in a management position) then it just shows the real character he is.
After 6 months of them being together, personally I think he shouldn't be having doubts.. but I think we all knew that he was an idiot
As he said, I deserved everything and he gave me nothing.
I'm a different person to what I was when we broke up.. I am a strong woman with a life of her own (well almost! I'm getting there anyway) and I am not going to get myself into a situation where I will be hurt again.
He has to get out on his own, show that he is making imrovements, treasure me and treat me like the worthwhile person I am before I can consider anything more than friendship.
On the flip side.. if he does nothing then I am finished with him once and for all.