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Originally Posted by deliquesce
for some clients who really didn't like having their feelings identified, i would often say something like "i'm not sure how it is for you, but if i was in that situation i would feel xyz" and it was sometimes enough of an invitation for them to agree or clarify (some people positively delighted in telling me i was wrong  )
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Taken literally: if you were in their situation,
no you wouldn't feel xyz!
In that case, the next question I would have wanted to ask them would have been, "Well, then -- If I were in that situation, how
would I feel?"