Your title makes it appear you are shocked, apprehensive, or anxious about him coming to live with you. Are you worried about it? I'm a little apprehensive about my husband getting out. Well, he has 6-7 months left. Although he seems to be a very loving and concerned parent to my son, he's never met him, so I wonder how it's going to go. But I do trust him more than most people with my son, because he does share my beliefs about parenting. Also, he's always been here for me emotionally, through everything and he has protected me anyway he could and saved me. You make it sound like your brother was a very good man who cared for and protected you, despite what his consequences could be. But do make sure you maintain those boundaries like Elysium has said. I hope your brother can be of some emotional support to you while he stays with you. Good luck.