Eloise - their policy is that I have to tell him to his face that I want to switch to someone else; it's dumb imho since in the end I have a right to see someone else anyhow, but I guess they do it because of the people who try to switch all the time. It will be over with in a couple of hours, so when I get home I will let you all know how it went.
Thanks everyone for the support!!
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From the movie The Hours: "If I were thinking clearly, Leonard, I would tell you that I wrestle alone in the dark, in the deep dark, and that only I can know. Only I can understand my condition. You live with the threat, you tell me you live with the threat of my extinction. Leonard, I live with it too."