Eloise... thank you so much for your kind words... your right. when I was in New Orleans and the people were everywhere I walked directly behind my father-in-law who is well over 6.5ft tall and over 300lb and with my husbands arms around my (he is 350lb and over 6.3ft tall as well)... I still was anxious the whole time we were out but it was a bit better being blocked by the men. Of course my husband knew what I was doing but he father didnt I dont really care, I was just using him as a shield. Yall are right he can think what he wants to. I did learn my lesson on taking trips with him though. Thanks everyone for the feedback, its really easy to feel wrong around him. On top of everything else he owns a law firm and has the art of argument down pat. eck cant we choose our inlaws