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((((Kasva))))
You are doing so good even by coming here. To be with those that know and understand your fear. Those of us that have done things to take back our power are getting kind of a head rush form others coming forward telling how they took back their power. Even if that person is still alive. You can even find your own ritual that will allow you to regain some inner strength. We hope that the abuse is no longer in your life.
Some of our private rituals are:
~The persons picture or representaion of the person. Placed on a dart bord. Threw darts until feeling happy.
~Writing long letters then buring them in a safe mannor.These letters contained all the pint up emotions the anger, the helplessness, Everything that the pereson made us feel but not able to tell them to their face.
~For one person we wrote a letter then barried it on their grave so that my words would always be near them.
~Some times we would get a blow up puching bag that they have for kids and knocked the air out of itsaying out loud all the things we wished we could have said to that person face.
~Regardless of what you choice to do the first step in recover is putting it into words or actions that tell your inner being we are no longer your slave, WE are no longer going to be afaid of you and your sick desires. And we will not go quitly into the night but we will stand tall and fight for who we are.
~But regardless of what you choice to do remember that you are not alone and we are proud that you are here choicing to heal from pain that most choices to run and hide from.
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Sometimes the only way to find freedom is to fight for it, even unto death! Because no form of abuse transcends pass it! To live free and with hope is still the greatest gift of life!- anderson .gif "Boy Angel")
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