I am 34 and have never had a long lasting relationship with a girl, because of my isolation due to social phobia, and shyness. Thus I was a virgin until I was 31(!), not because I wanted to, I have always felt like a sexual being. Can any of you relate to this I wonder.. or am I just weird?
Then I met a girl on the net and we had two great weekends, and I found the cuddling was great and the sex, because of my inexperience was not as great as when I did it myself.
We split up, because we were too different to be together and other issues, like that she had two kids, and I am uncomfortable around kids.
My question is now, when I do not have any experience having a long-term relationship, do you think I would be able to have one... Is this something one can learn?? I have this longing to be with a girl, have had it since puberty, though I think it might be to hard on me being together with one, with my mental problems... I hope I make sense?